The Glorious Thing About Being Nowhere Near Your Comfort Zone

Last month, I did a thing.

An amazing, wonderful, life-changing thing.

Also a terrifying, doubt-inducing, asshole-mind-inviting thing.

You know what I mean…… That voice in your head that says, “Who do you think you are?” or “You’re not ready for this,” or even worse, “Everyone can tell you don’t belong here.”

Yeah. That voice came with me this week, right into the room where I was doing the big, bold, uncomfortable thing.

But you know what else came with me?

My courage.

My grit.

My “do it scared” attitude.

And my breath—steady and deep, reminding me that I was still here, still standing, still choosing to move forward.

Last month, I worked The Oddities Flea Market with my childhood bestie.

 It was an environment I didn’t even know existed—think macabre displays, skeleton art, vintage exotic jewelry, and wildly unusual fashion. The entire scene was new and unfamiliar to me. And I was amazed.

The people there? Each one more unique than the next. It was a safe space where people could be their true selves—dress in their true vibe—and be unapologetically who they are. And the wildest part? I loved every second of it.

Everyone I met was friendly, kind, and completely accepting. There was this overwhelming sense of love and inclusion that I didn’t expect but deeply appreciated.

I learned so much from this experience:

• How rich and rewarding it is to step into new worlds and explore unfamiliar spaces.

• How inspiring it can be to witness people living boldly and authentically.

• And how empowering it feels to grow beyond what you thought was your limit.

  
  

So if you ever find yourself outside your comfort zone, here’s what I want you to remember:

1. That voice of fear is just a sign that you’re doing something meaningful.

Let it be a signal, not a stop sign.

2. You’re more ready than you think.

The fact that you’re even showing up means you have what it takes.

3. Growth feels like expansion. 

It may feel different—but different doesn’t mean wrong. It means you’re stretching into something new.

4. Courage and excitement go hand in hand.

 Feeling nervous just means you care. Let that energy move you forward.

5. Joy lives on the other side of brave.

When you leap, you create space for joy, confidence, and self-discovery.

This week, I stood on the edge and jumped. I didn’t do it perfectly, and I didn’t do it without fear—but I did it anyway.

And now? I feel alive. Awake. A lot bolder.  And I can’t wait to do it again!

I invite you to take my Leadership Assessment at www.thesinhagroup.net to understand your skill sets and develop some new intentions…and bold courage.